According to you, can men and women be just friends? According to me I can say that men and women can be just friends. I asked a female friend of mine to elaborate on the theory of “just friend-ship” and while she admit that when she was younger she tried to befriend the “better looking” gents at work with her ulterior motives, now she says that she can be just friends with a good looking man. “Friends come in all shapes, sizes, colors, so why not gender?” I can say that men and women can definitely be friends. I believe that this is possible only if they do not allow society to dictate their relationship by imposing the fact that men and women can’t be friends. I believe that men and women can be friends; I also understand that there is magnetism between the opposite sex that responds to silent signals of availability that are subconsciously emitted by either of the two.
Why are relationships always viewed as nothing more than a distraction or an upheaval of well thought out goals? Can’t the two individuals erase the expertly defined boundary of friendship, find more balance and learn to manage both work and love equally? Rub their stomach and pat their heads at the same time, if you will.
Giving him the benefit of the doubt I asked myself, if it was me who wanted a friendship and it were him who was telephoning me after 11p.m on a work night asking me out to a late movie, would I still think we were just melding in the company of each other as we joked kicked around our thoughts and dreams? Would I still be on the other end of the telephone convincing him in certain terms why I can’t fit emotions and caring for someone into my life right now or would I give up my stance and fall quickly, noisily and hard? They say that most often love catches you by surprise. Love is tricky and it annihilates all of the rules found in books and leaves friendships exposed for what they really are, some of the most opportune ways to meet someone you can get to know from the ground level without wearing a facade.++++++++++++++++++
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